Lasting Contentment is Nowhere but in Rama

Everyone devotedly engrosses himself with worldly matters, but nobody ever
obtains contentment. He experiences a mixture of happiness and
unhappiness. One sometimes feels disgusted with worldly matters, but we
cannot shake them off. Handling coins tarnishes the hands, but that is not
the fault of money. So, excessive regard for money leads to worry and
misery. Too much regard for worldly esteem has a similar effect. One should
follow the course of the world and behave as occasion demands, but all the
while maintain calm contentedness at heart. In practical life, do as you
would be done by. We must preserve our respective relationship with
everyone. Be practical in your behaviour, but take care that you hurt
nobody’s feelings.
Choose your associates carefully, without being carried away by mere
honeyed talk. Avoid associating with smooth-tongued persons who,
however, harbour evil intents at heart. To everyone give the respect he
deserves; keep young ones contented, humble yourself before elders. Be
noble of heart and submissive, agreeable, in behaviour. Talk not insultingly
to anyone, but rather, agreeably to all. Beware of indolence, for it may well
render merit ineffective.
Dependence is undoubtedly rankling, but remember everyone has it in one
form or another. However, be not under obligation for sheer indolence. On
the other hand, do not overrate and overtax your physical capacity. Do not
worry unnecessarily about what has been or what will be; act as may be
appropriate to circumstances, without being a victim of indolence.
In financial matters, accept what you earn today, and try to earn more in
future. You can’t get anything for nothing, so work hard in your job. Save
something from your earning, instead of spending all. If you are in debt, pay
it back, in installments if necessary, and beware of contracting fresh debts.
Be loyal to your employer, obedient in his service.
Be cautious in worldly transactions, and direct your effort properly. Follow
the path of truth. Act with care so that nobody is put to loss on your
account, even unwittingly. Remember in your heart of hearts that you
belong to God. Lasting contentment is to be had in Rama, nowhere else.
Therefore be in contentment with circumstances as you find them, with
nama as your constant companion. Never expect that you can achieve selfinterest
without proper effort.
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